Sex, we all agree is a vital part of a healthy relationship between COUPLES.I am however not ignoring the fact that there are many sexually active adults in soceity who are not married but have sexually active lives.
The hypocacy in our soceity has made millions of women to shy away from the reasons why infidelity and sexual immorality is now so rampant. Many women don`t think they indirectly encourage their partners to cheat when they make excuses at sexual attempts.
Many phycologists will list a few reasons like stress, bad sexual orientation, lack of proper foreplay, obesity, you know the rest but coming from a woman i know its often more than this.
Communication plays a big role in how your partner will relate to you sexually.If your body language isn`t right chances is that you will get less than you bargained for. sometimes the lack of experience, bad breath, nasty underwear or the reluctance to try new things is a successful turn off.
The import of sex toys and stimulants is on the rise and i have heard some people whisper at parties of how low and degrading they think it is when in reality they are either too shy to ask for where to purchase the item or just too much of hypocrates to admit they lack a good sex life.
I see nothing wrong if 2 consenting adults spice up their sex life. If
it helps them stay faithfull to each other then so be it. Some say that the continous use can turn people into pervets and freaks with unsatisfiable lusts and desires. While some other simply say "go for it"
However if a lady is spotted with a dildo or vibrator in her bag chances that she is tagged a freak or even abused is over the average.
Are we too religious or too hypocritical or are we brought up to believe we have no right or reason to enjoy sex. A little bird told me that female mutilation came into existence to curb promiscuity in women.
I have heard a whole load of B.S in my days. i am a christian woman but not an hypocrate, i believe in upholding moral standards but i am not perfect, i don`t use sexual stimulants or toys but i have no
issues with those that do.
what`s your opinion? please don`t tell me you are a virgin cause chan
ces that you masturbate is very high.
The hypocacy in our soceity has made millions of women to shy away from the reasons why infidelity and sexual immorality is now so rampant. Many women don`t think they indirectly encourage their partners to cheat when they make excuses at sexual attempts.Many phycologists will list a few reasons like stress, bad sexual orientation, lack of proper foreplay, obesity, you know the rest but coming from a woman i know its often more than this.
Communication plays a big role in how your partner will relate to you sexually.If your body language isn`t right chances is that you will get less than you bargained for. sometimes the lack of experience, bad breath, nasty underwear or the reluctance to try new things is a successful turn off.
The import of sex toys and stimulants is on the rise and i have heard some people whisper at parties of how low and degrading they think it is when in reality they are either too shy to ask for where to purchase the item or just too much of hypocrates to admit they lack a good sex life.
I see nothing wrong if 2 consenting adults spice up their sex life. If
it helps them stay faithfull to each other then so be it. Some say that the continous use can turn people into pervets and freaks with unsatisfiable lusts and desires. While some other simply say "go for it"
However if a lady is spotted with a dildo or vibrator in her bag chances that she is tagged a freak or even abused is over the average.
Are we too religious or too hypocritical or are we brought up to believe we have no right or reason to enjoy sex. A little bird told me that female mutilation came into existence to curb promiscuity in women.
I have heard a whole load of B.S in my days. i am a christian woman but not an hypocrate, i believe in upholding moral standards but i am not perfect, i don`t use sexual stimulants or toys but i have no
issues with those that do.
what`s your opinion? please don`t tell me you are a virgin cause chan
ces that you masturbate is very high.
Hi, my name is Lisa and i say that the problem with our women is that they love to pretend. they are freaks before marriage and immediately they sign the dotted lines they turn righteous.
ReplyDeletelol if a woman has a vibrator in her bag i take it that she is scouting for some action..
ReplyDeleteI don`t have a problem with couples single or married doing whatever to stay in love and happy as long as you aint trying to take my man. lol
ReplyDeleteFinally someone is telling women to loosen up with all the holier than thou nonsense.
ReplyDeleteTruth be told if you don`t keep your relationship someone else will take it from you.
Am feeling this!
Interesting topic
ReplyDeleteIs that what you have to say@ brazillian weave.
ReplyDeleteHmmm...quiet an interesting topic...I don't see anything wrong if both parties can't easily stimulate each other during foreplay and need the help of toys to do so.
ReplyDeleteAre we saying that sexual immorality is rampant because married women aren`t trying new things at home? or will you agree with me that more men are seeking satisfaction outside their spouses and partners because the younger generation of women have no moral values and will do anything for a little luxury?
ReplyDeleteI say that most women give up their freakiness after mariage and men tend to get bored easily.
ReplyDeleteQueen B is right about the younger ladies. Take a look at facebook these days lots of girls put up nude pictures of themselves. Only a very principled man will find it repulsive most men will want a piece of the pie.
I think most women after having a child give up easily instead of getting their groove on and back on track. This tend to send the men out to chase those younger babes who are wiling to do anything for a little in their pockets.
ReplyDeleteAs Sandy said most men on facebook go for it and eat the pie anyway. It's just a shame!
Some women really don`t know how to get their groove back on so i suggest we help them out.
ReplyDeleteLots of women find it difficult loosing the pregnancy weight, some others find it difficult giving equal attention to their men and some think when they children come you have to out grow the freakiness.
Men never really change with marriage or children it`s just the women that do right?
I think men change when they see the women slug in with the weight and can't seem to look as sharp and sexy as they were prior to having kids.
ReplyDeleteI believe women should learn to get their groove back by learning to take care of themselves starting with shedding pregnancy weight, getting a makeover and ensuring their still active in the bedroom. Getting married and having children doesn't mean the turning the lights off.
Hmm..maybe I should start a motivation class for this...lol. On a serious note, I'd love to help women who need to get their groove back and keep the fire burning.
Maybe you should you just might save a lot of relationships.
ReplyDeleteI was hoping some women with vibrators would have signed in by now so i can ask some innocent but curious questions. lol
ReplyDeleteIn my opinion every articifial method of sexually satisfying onesself with the aid of toys and stimulants is perveted. Period!Heterosexual relationships was designed for a good reason and celebacy and abtainance for another.
ReplyDeleteIf a spouse cant be satisfied at home then he needs some other form of healing.
Perveted? perveted is relative. i say perveted is a 60 yr old man dating an 18yr old lady. i say perveted is men having anal sex. i say perveted is you (Cathy) reading this and trying to imagine what i am wearing.
ReplyDeleteHi Brazilian weave: Thanks to you, I'm beginning to blog, will eventually start a motivation class as well as one on one....it's : http://sophiasdiary.wordpress.com/
ReplyDeleteEnjoy and let's learn from each other.