Tuesday, November 15, 2011

Women and their sexuality

Sex, we all agree is a vital part of a healthy relationship between COUPLES.I am however not ignoring the fact that there are many sexually active adults in soceity who are not married but have sexually active lives.

The hypocacy in our soceity has made millions of women to shy away from the reasons why infidelity and sexual immorality is now so rampant. Many women don`t think they indirectly encourage their partners to cheat when they make excuses at sexual attempts.

Many phycologists will list a few reasons like stress, bad sexual orientation, lack of proper foreplay, obesity, you know the rest but coming from a woman i know its often more than this.

Communication plays a big role in how your partner will relate to you sexually.If your body language isn`t right chances is that you will get less than you bargained for. sometimes the lack of experience, bad breath, nasty underwear or the reluctance to try new things is a successful turn off.

The import of sex toys and stimulants is on the rise and i have heard some people whisper at parties of how low and degrading they think it is when in reality they are either too shy to ask for where to purchase the item or just too much of  hypocrates to admit they lack a good sex life.

I see nothing wrong if 2 consenting adults spice up their sex life. If
  it helps them stay faithfull to each other then so be it. Some say that the continous use can turn people into pervets and freaks with unsatisfiable lusts and desires. While some other simply say "go for it"

However if a lady is spotted with a dildo or vibrator in her bag chances that she is tagged a freak or even abused is over the average.

Are we too religious or too hypocritical or are we brought up to believe we have no right or reason to enjoy sex. A little bird told me that female mutilation came into existence to curb promiscuity in women.





 I have heard a whole load of B.S in my days. i am a christian woman but not an hypocrate, i believe in upholding moral standards but i am not perfect, i don`t use sexual stimulants or toys but i have no
issues with those that do.

what`s your opinion? please don`t tell me you are a virgin cause chan
ces that you masturbate is very high.